[Guest Post] Part-time Working Girl, Part Time Blogger by Nicka Jerao

Work-life balance and how I maintain my presence on social media:

It’s never an easy thing to balance your work and personal life. I am no professional. To be honest, I am a newbie with this whole adulting phase in my life. When I had my first job I didn’t expect it would take too much of my time and motivation. With work keeping me busy for 8 hrs., it’s impossible for me to do the things I used to do or so I thought. I made a rule for myself that I shouldn’t think about work when I’m at home. The moment I walked out the door of my office, the rest of my day is for my reading, writing or time with my family. I have a 9 to 5 job, I write for a magazine in the Philippines and sometimes blog about books, my travels and basically everything about me.

During the weekends, I make sure that I have time for myself and regain my strength. One thing I learned is that you don’t have to overwork yourself. I’m slowing learning little habits that can make me productive even though I’m loaded and stressed with work.

I don’t post regularly on social media like I used to. I’ve been in a 6-month long hiatus because I was so demotivated and uninspired. Moving to a new country has been a great achievement for me; experiencing new culture and meeting new people. But now, I post in my #bookstagram once in a while. I’m active on Twitter but I just post random stuff there. Maintaining an active presence on social media is a tough thing to do if you don’t plan anything out. It’s better to plan ahead and organize.

How I pick the books I read and how I squeeze reading time in my everyday life:

Back then, I would stick to my monthly TBR. But now, I discovered that I’m a mood reader. I read based on my mood or what my mind is craving for. No pressure on how many books I have to read in a month. I’ve never been that reader who has to read new releases when they come out. I’m more of a backlist reader.  I don’t discriminate books, I don’t judge on how they look (sometimes). If the synopsis gets my attention I would definitely read it no matter how it looks or how cheesy it might sound. I read diverse & non-diverse books. I like to keep my options open, as long as I know I will learn from the characters’ point of view. I don’t get discouraged whenever I see bad reviews of books, I have to read it and share my own opinion.

To be honest, I am currently on a short hiatus. I’m not reading as much as I did before.  I don’t pressure myself to read a book because I‘m behind my reading challenge. I read when I want to read. I read what I want to read. There’s no one stopping me to read all the books in the world. Can I be immortal?



[Author Interview] Helen Hoang

Helen Hoang is that shy person who never talks. Until she does. And the worst things fly out of her mouth. She read her first romance novel in eighth grade and has been addicted ever since.

In 2016, she was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in line with what was previously known as Asperger’s Syndrome. Her journey inspired THE KISS QUOTIENT, which comes out in June 2018 with Berkley.

She currently lives in San Diego, California with her husband, two kids, and pet fish.

Helen is represented by Kim Lionetti of BookEnds Literary Agency.

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[Guest Post] The Myth of the Wrong Books by KB Meniado

Bookbed was born in 2010, in the hope of finding a solution to my perpetual problem of “where do I get money to buy more books.” I was just out of a job then (my contract ended), my savings account a joke, so I was worried about how I was going to sustain my book buying habit, which was one of the few things I’ve built my happiness around. I know, I hear you—parents. Mine are always so generous and supportive, but they were already paying for my bills as it was. I was 20, and if I was serious about learning how to be an adult, including affording my own wants, I had to somehow try my best in many ways, didn’t I? So one of my ~great ideas was book buying and selling.

Now I don’t mean that Bookbed was my gateway to maturity, financial stability, and my best self, because nah, fam. The point I’m trying to make is that when I started doing Bookbed—at least the first version of it which was an online secondhand bookstore thing, I learned so many things about readers, and I was able to connect with a lot of them. This was kind of mindblowing and magical to me, because growing up, reading had always been more of a solitary experience. Sure, my high school barkada and I also bonded over romance and young adult novels, but one, they were already my friends, and two, they seemed like they could live without all of it, unlike me. In the world of online book buying and selling, I was meeting strangers, forging friendships with them, finding out how much books meant to them.

It was life-changing.

But it wasn’t always ideal. Because there were a lot of times I wasn’t selling any and just more of buying many. I remember thinking “shit, I’m reading and buying the wrong books and now I can’t get rid of them.” (Excuse this insecurity, I was my particular kind of young idiot.) But digging deeper, it was an insight on how different readers are, and how differently we all read. Sometimes it’s not about the bestsellers, and other times it’s not about the cult reads. Or it’s not even about the literal printed word at all! I should know, illustrated books sold out before I could even say “nope, no discount.”

I learned way more about how and what people read when Bookbed became a community in 2014. This was because aside from book buying and selling, we put up a book blog that was (and still is) open to one-time and regular contributors. Everyone and anyone could write about whatever book they wanted, and we would publish the review or feature, given that it followed our easy guidelines. We, like others, also accepted review requests, collaborated with other communities, and worked with authors and illustrators. We, like others, worked to create a safe space where all kinds of people, voracious readers or not, could read whatever they wanted and talked about it however and whenever they want.

Know what all those years of doing Bookbed work drilled to me? That every freaking book has a reader. It doesn’t matter what genre or who it is by or where it is set, there will always, always be someone who will want to read it and who will want to talk about it. So again: it’s not about selling the wrong books. It’s about finding the right people to sell it to. Sounds easy? With social media trends and all those bajillion freaking hashtags, just one click and there they are, all the new book buddies and buyers.

Well, I wish that always worked. Because while I love how the online book community is so happening and revolutionary right now, sometimes everything can get a little too intimidating, isolating, and, dare I say, derivative. Please don’t think I’m being all high and mighty here because I’ve fallen into those traps as well, and all I can say is that… there will be more, for sure. What I suggest we can do is to practice self-awareness and mindful consumption (and that goes for everything else in life). Say, this book is going viral? You don’t necessarily have to read it – or you absolutely may, I mean, it’s your life. Do what you want!

And that’s the ~moral lesson of all this, basically. (Remember book review assignments, anyone?) Your life, your choices. It’s not about having the right books, or the right number of followers, or maybe even the right amount of money. It’s about the right to choose what you want to read, and the right to be free to enjoy what you choose. Try your best to do that and you’ll see the right people and books will find their way to you (or vice versa, it can go both ways). It’s really mindblowing and magical, take it from me.

In author Orhan Pamuk’s words, KB Meniado read a book one day and her whole life was changed. She believes that reading helps shape dreams, and dreams help build lives. Visit the community she put up in the name of her love for stories and books on BOOKBED.ORG.


[Featured Bookstagram] Melissa & Isabel (thereaderandthechef)

Why I love this account:

Melissa (the reader) and Isabel (the chef) are phenomenal. I love how they bring books and food together, and you shouldn’t look at their bookstagram photos when you don’t have access to food because your cravings might attack.

Major plus: They host a lot of international giveaways. You know how much this means to international bloggers (like me!). ❤

Below are their answers to the questions I’ve asked:

How do you choose the books you feature in your bookstagram photos? Do you believe that your bookstagram features diverse reads?

We mostly choose the books to feature based on the daily prompts of Bookstagram challenges we participate in! Our favorites right now are #JulyBookstagram18 #AlltheBooksJuly18 & #JulyinBooks18 which always have great prompts that help inspire us while narrowing down our book choices. However, we do often ignore the prompts and just squeeze in our favorite reads into the photos just because we love having them there! We do strive to read and feature diverse reads as well. Our small library may not be full of them (yet) but we are definitely trying to get as many as our pocket allows it! ♥️

Who are some of your favorite bookstagrammers and why do you love these accounts?

Oh gosh, so many! We definitely love @darkfaerietales_, @myfriendsarefiction, @paperfury, @cbookaddiction, @loriimagination, @webookingloveit, @booknerdbecky, @book_junkee, @thebooksbuzz, @the_bandar_blog & honestly, the list could go on. What we love about them is the hard work and dedication to their accounts, not to mention their stunning & unique photos! They have all worked hard to find their styles and it shows how much they love what they do. 🙂

In your opinion, what is the most important part of bookstagram?

Besides having fun and providing an amazing community to share our love for books & fandoms, Bookstagram is a place that allows us to develop our creative sides while supporting the art of others. So, as an advice to make bookstagram an enjoyable place, every bookstagrammer must learn to love their skills. If you are barely starting an account or barely finding your foot in book photography, it’s important to love what you do and to know that you are trying, that you will improve constantly, and that you will nail it every single time because there’s no perfect style of book photography anyway. However, your efforts will show in your photos and the amazing community will always be there cheering for you every step of the way!

Follow @thereaderandthechef on Instagram.

Love at First Run by Angel C. Aquino

Love at First Run by Angel C. Aquino

Publication Date: April 30, 2018

Genre: Romance

[I received a review copy from the author in exchange for an honest review. Thank you so much!]


After getting her heart broken, 23-year-old Diana Gomez is afraid to fall in love again. But when her office crush Paul invites her to join a running club with him, she goes for it.

What she doesn’t know is that to be a part of the club, she actually has to train for a half marathon—and that she’ll meet Joshua, the handsome club veteran who becomes her unofficial running buddy.

As if it isn’t hard enough to do speed work, interval training, and long runs after work and on weekends, she has to deal with her feelings for both boys and face her fears of falling in love.

Will she reach the finish line without getting herself (or her heart) injured? Journey with Diana as she reaches running milestones, overcomes obstacles, pushes herself to the limit, and discovers the strength within her…one kilometer at a time.

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Academic Fangirling (a.k.a. #romancethesis)

Everything seemed to be a baby step. So many people working so hard to take a freaking baby step. So many things were so difficult, and she wasn’t sure if it was the world changing, or just that she got older and saw it for what it was. The idea that you could do that thing you love and change the world…did that really happen? Because if no one ever found out about it, what world did it change?
-What Kind of Day, Mina V. Esguerra

I’m listening to A Million Dreams (from The Greatest Showman) as I type this post because that song is one of the many things that helped me get through my last semester at my university.

One of the major requirements for graduation is the dreaded undergraduate thesis, and I know that I wanted to work on something that really matters to me.

My initial topic (way back in 2015, when we were just sophomores) was about the influence of suicide-themed contemporary young adult books on the self-esteem of Filipino college students and their social interaction within a specific community.

I liked this topic a lot, but it was pointed out that the books I used were all written by foreign authors. Furthermore, suicide was still considered taboo (to some extent) at that time, and it was suggested that I study a concept with a more localized setting.

Women representation was given as an example, and I had a lightbulb moment upon hearing those words.

Women representation in romance novels.

Women representation in romance novels by Filipino authors.
R O M A N C E C L A S S (!!!)

Three years later, I stood in front of a panel to defend the undergraduate thesis that I’ve put so much heart into.

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July: Book Discrimination Awareness Month

Hello, and welcome to this year’s Book Discrimination Awareness Month!

In 2014, I started a blog event in an attempt to fight book discrimination. Through interviews with authors, bloggers, and fellow bibliophiles, I did my best to capture the meaning of book discrimination by featuring varied perspectives from the beautiful people of the bookish community.

After three years of hosting the blog event, I still believe that book discrimination exists, even within myself. But I think what matters more is the constant fight against it – made possible through the combined efforts of everyone supporting this event.

For my new followers and to those who haven’t heard of this blog event, below are my event recaps for the 2014 and 2015:

A sad note that I need to apologize for: No recap for 2016 because of a hiatus. No blog event for 2017 because of another hiatus. 😦

(Because I’m finally free from school) I am so glad to announce that my blog event is finally back! ❤

This year’s #BDAMChat will be on July 31, 9 p.m. EST, and for the first time in (my book blog’s) history, we’ll be giving away an audiobook!

That’s just one of the many sneak peeks I’ll be posting throughout the blog event. Watch out for the giveaways to come! ❤

Would you like to participate in my blog event? Head over to this page so you can share your thoughts!

Swoon Saturday (2): Jenn P. Nguyen and Danika Stone

Swoon SaturdaysSwoon Twins: Jenn P. Nguyen and Danika Stone

I find it really cool whenever Swoon Reads decides to have Swoon Twins – authors with the same release day. I mean, more reasons to celebrate!!!

Last year, we had Temple West and Kimberly Karalius, celebrating their book birthday on the 12th of May.

This year, we have Jenn and Danika – celebrating their book birthday every June 7! ❤

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